I got a lunch day with men I’d exchanged a few email messages and lots of a g-chat with. We actually Skyped-which i’m going to be composing a post onâ¦we recommend Skype or iChat with a date before you decide to spend your time doing your locks, especially if you’re balancing lot’s of times. For reals.
Anyways, all was actually good regarding “No Catfish Here forward”. We looked like myself, he appeared as if him, we chuckled and chose we could handle a real day.
I became on time, he was belated (whyyyyyyyyyâ¦stop becoming LATER you guys)â¦and he texted me personally, “Just strolling upwards!”
It had been pouring rainfall, did I discuss that? And freezing, no less than for Southern Ca criteria. And then he had been using flip-flops. SANDALS. The.Horror.
I hate to sound awesome judgemental (far too late!) but as on the web daters, actually that whatever you would? JUDGE! Assess one e-mail, very first call, the Twitter judge, trying to find what is wrongâ¦instead of what’s correct? Or is that just meâ¦haha.
Today, I am not browsing beat around the bush right here. In my opinion some guy putting on flip-flops in the pouring rain is actually ridiculous. I’d imagine the same about a girlâ¦but in which We stay, sandals and shoes never get put away forever and I also understand i am guilty of a grocery store run in flip flops during a storm. A lot of the guys I am attracted to are surfers, or outdoorsy and flip-flops and jeans are sorts of their unique consistent. Perform I wish he had the current presence of brain to hold actual boots? Exactly why yes, yes i really do. Did he need a pedicure? Yes, yes the guy did-all that outdoorsy-ness I really like a great deal does not leave your own feet looking also sensuous, it seems that.
But we digress.
We chuckled a lot in which he is devastatingly handsome. He’s impressive table ways and questioned the right concerns. Situations was going really because after we ate, he requested easily wanted to choose another location to find some pumpkin cheesecake. I forgot about his footwear and stopped judgingâ¦and simply had a very good time.
Whether he’s someone i do want to carry on matchmaking features but become determined, in case situations keep going really, perhaps we’ll only have to get him a pair of Chuck Taylor’s for Christmas time and burn the flip flops. With really love, definitely. And an alibi. ????